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Elizabeth Pantelakis
B: 1948-08-28
D: 2019-06-19
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Pantelakis, Elizabeth
Clarence John Alblas
B: 1945-09-30
D: 2019-06-18
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Alblas , Clarence John
Michael Palermo
B: 1931-05-09
D: 2019-06-17
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Palermo, Michael
Jenella Allen
B: 1994-12-25
D: 2019-06-17
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Cornelia Kohout
B: 1934-03-19
D: 2019-06-16
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Kohout, Cornelia
William Twambley
B: 1950-03-11
D: 2019-06-16
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Twambley, William
Marlene Bracciale
B: 1936-05-29
D: 2019-06-16
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Bracciale, Marlene
Mary Xamin
B: 1930-07-24
D: 2019-06-15
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Xamin, Mary
Wallace Heslip
B: 1932-03-20
D: 2019-06-15
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Heslip, Wallace
Marilyn Tudge
B: 1936-02-01
D: 2019-06-14
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Tudge, Marilyn
Peter Silvestro
B: 1959-02-12
D: 2019-06-14
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Silvestro, Peter
Bernadette Boone
B: 1947-03-02
D: 2019-06-14
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Boone, Bernadette
Diane Guibord-Santos
B: 1945-06-06
D: 2019-06-13
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Guibord-Santos, Diane
Harry Preston
B: 1922-04-28
D: 2019-06-13
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Preston, Harry
Sylvia Dexter
B: 1945-01-14
D: 2019-06-13
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Dexter, Sylvia
Lilly Joseph
B: 1932-07-21
D: 2019-06-12
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Joseph, Lilly
Shirley James
B: 1933-12-02
D: 2019-06-12
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Natalie Love
B: 1920-03-16
D: 2019-06-12
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Anthony Krall
B: 1942-04-28
D: 2019-06-11
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Krall, Anthony
Coralee Campbell
B: 1931-11-20
D: 2019-06-11
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Campbell, Coralee
Paul Pytlowana
B: 1926-05-29
D: 2019-06-10
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Pytlowana, Paul

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Writing a Eulogy

by:  Dr. Alan D. Wolfelt



BE BRAVE

The thought of writing a speech and presenting it in public makes many people anxious.  Set aside your fears for now.  You can do this.  Focus on the person who died and the gift you will be giving to all of those who know and loved him or her.

 

THINK

Before you start writing go for a long walk or drive and think about the life of the person who died.  This will help you collect your thoughts and focus on writing the eulogy.

 

BRAINSTORM

Spend half an hour (longer if you wish), writing down all of the thoughts, ideas and memories that come to you.

 

LOOK AT PHOTOS

Flipping through photo albums may remind you of important qualities and memories of the person who died.

 

DON'T TRY TO DO IT ALL

Your eulogy doesn't have to cover every aspect of this person's life.  In fact, often the best eulogies are those that focus on the eulogy-giver's personal thoughts and memories.  Do try to acknowledge those who were closest to the person who died as well as important achievements in this person's life, but don't feel obligated to provide an exhaustive biography.

 

ASK OTHERS TO SHARE MEMORIES

A good way to include others in the ceremony is to ask them to share thoughts and memories which you can then incorporate into the eulogy.

 

WRITE A DRAFT

Once you've brainstormed and collected memories, it's time to write the first draft.  Go somewhere quiet and write it all in one sitting, start to finish.  Don't worry about getting it perfect for now - just get it down on paper.

 

LET IT SIT

If time allows, let your eulogy draft sit for a few hours or a day before revising.

 

GET A SECOND OPINION

Have someone else - preferably someone who was close to the person who died - read over your draft at this point.  This person can make revision suggestions and help you avoid inadvertently saying something that might offend others.

 

POLISH

Read over your first draft.  Look for awkward phrases or stiff wording.  Improve the transitions from paragraph to paragraph or thought to thought.  Find adjectives and verbs that really capture the essence of the person who has died.

 

PRESENT YOUR EULOGY WITH LOVE

Now you need to present your eulogy.  You may well feel nervous, but if you can keep your focus on the person who died instead of your own feelings, you'll loosen up.  If you break down as you're talking, that's OK.  Everyone will understand.  Just stop for a few seconds, collect your self and continue.

 

SPEAK UP

It's very important that you speak clearly and loudly so that everyone can hear you.


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